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Question No. 3131 31 August 2022 Official answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat) verified سطح محتوا: مقدماتی

I Reminded Him Not to Ask After Women He Isn’t Related to. Was I Wrong?

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Dear questioner, Master Ali Saei
Tracking code: #Q-3131

(A question from a young sister)

I went with my dad to a greengrocer’s shop. It was crowded, and most of the customers were women. People were being served in turn. I noticed that the greengrocer asked only the women how they were doing, and in a very familiar way. He even said to some of them, “Madam, we haven’t seen you for a while.” I asked my dad if I could say something to the greengrocer. I asked him, “Why do you ask after women you’re not related to? And why do you speak to them in that tone? You wouldn’t like it if a man on the street asked after your wife or daughter and said, ‘Why haven’t you been around?’”

The man said nothing, but the women told me, “Young lady, why did you upset him?” Teacher, was I wrong to remind him?

The essence and first answer at a glance (60-word summary)

Enjoining what is right and discouraging what is wrong in a kind yet firm manner is a form of striving in God’s cause. It brings joy to God and His saints, and places the family under divine care. What you did is commendable, and helps safeguard your family’s well-being and secure God’s special grace.

Answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat)

Teacher and researcher in the intellectual tradition of wisdom and the Ahl al-Bayt | Soroush Bamdadān Cultural Center

Well done! You uphold the duty to enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong with such beauty and steadfastness. What you are doing is a form of jihad, and it brings joy to God, His messengers, His saints, and the Imam of the Age, peace be upon him. Bravo, welcome, and may God bless you. Through this work, your honoured family will be under God’s protection and special grace. Blessed be God!

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