Question No. 3207 31 August 2022 Official answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat) verified سطح محتوا: مقدماتی

Should I Have Given My Guest My Potted Plant?

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(A question from a young sister)

We have lots of flowers and potted plants at home, and I planted some of them myself. Someone came to our house, and as they were leaving, they took a liking to one of my plants and asked me to give it to them. I said, “I only have one of that plant. Let me grow another one, and then I’ll give it to you.” They replied, “But I’ve heard you’re generous. If you really were generous, you would have given it to me as soon as I asked. So clearly you’re not giving.” Teacher, should I have given them the plant?

Subject category: Ethics and Spirituality Religious Upbringing and Family Religious education

The essence and first answer at a glance (60-word summary)

Excessive generosity is not commendable; giving should be thoughtful and guided by good judgment. In this case, I should have consulted my parents before giving away the potted plant. No one can be pressured into giving something away through words alone.

Answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat)

Teacher and researcher in the intellectual tradition of wisdom and the Ahl al-Bayt | Soroush Bamdadān Cultural Center

Excess in generosity is forbidden. It is not the case that anyone who asks for something must be given whatever they want. Giving should also be done thoughtfully, with knowledge and sound judgment.

The urgency of the need should also be taken into account.

Nor is it acceptable for someone to try to pressure another into giving through their words.

In this case, you needed to consult your respected parents.

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Should I Have Given My Guest My Potted Plant?

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Answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat)

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