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Question No. 2882 31 August 2022 Official answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat) verified Content level: Intermediate

What is the ruling on kissing other people’s hands, especially those of one’s parents?

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According to authentic hadiths, kissing the hand is permissible only when it is done for the Messenger of God (PBUH) or for someone as a means of honouring him. Kissing anyone else’s hand is like performing a prayer for them. A mother is to be kissed on the lips, a sister on the cheeks, and an imam between the eyes.

Answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat)

Teacher and researcher in the intellectual tradition of wisdom and the Ahl al-Bayt | Soroush Bamdadān Cultural Center

According to authentic hadiths, kissing someone’s hand is permissible only when it is the hand of the Messenger of God (AS) or one of his appointed successors.

علی بن إبراهیم عن أبیه عن ابن أبی عمیر عن رفاعه بن موسى عن أبی عبد الله ع قال: لا یقبل رأس أحد و لا یده إلا ید رسول الله ص أو من أرید به رسول الله ص.
الکافی (ط - الإسلامیه)، ج‏2، ص: 185

Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said: “No one’s head or hand should be kissed, except the hand of the Messenger of God (AS), or of someone through whom the Messenger of God (AS) is intended.”

و قال ع‏ لا یقبل الرجل ید الرجل فإن‏ قبله یده‏ کالصلاه له‏

“No one should kiss another person’s hand, for kissing his hand is like praying to him.”

بحار الأنوار (ط - بیروت) ؛ ج‏75 ؛ ص345

و قال ع قبله الأم على الفم و قبله الأخت على الخد و قبله الإمام بین عینیه.

“He said (AS): A mother is kissed on the lips, a sister on the cheek, and an Imam between the eyes.”

بحار الأنوار (ط - بیروت) ؛ ج‏75 ؛ ص345

**A Gift**

عن ابن مسعود قال: نظر إلی رسول الله ص و هو واضع کفه فی کف علی ع مبتسما فی وجهه فقلت یا رسول الله ما منزله علی منک؟ قال کمنزلتی عند الله عز و جل‏

بشاره المصطفى لشیعه المرتضى (ط - القدیمه)، ج‏2، ص: 275

Ibn Mas‘ud relates: I saw the Messenger of God (AS), smiling at Ali (AS) as he held Ali’s hand in his own and kissed it. I asked, “O Messenger of God, what rank does Ali hold with you?” He replied, “The rank I hold with God, Mighty and Majestic.”

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