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Question No. 3462 10 September 2026 Official answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat) verified سطح محتوا: مقدماتی

برای حل مشکل ازدواج موقت و رضایت برادر عروس چه دعاهایی بخوانیم؟

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Dear questioner, Master Ali Saei
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Dear Master, a couple have been married by temporary marriage for three years, but have not yet entered into a permanent marriage. Both families are eager for the union and approve of it, but the young woman’s brother keeps obstructing it for various reasons. It seems that he himself once wished to marry, but his family did not consent; now he raises various objections concerning the groom’s personal circumstances and other matters. Despite both parties’ patience and efforts to help him come around through advice from people he respects, nothing has worked. Their temporary marriage is now heading towards separation, yet the young woman’s family cannot make a decision without her brother’s consent, because they fear the consequences.

I have a particular idea about how to address this, and have taken some steps, but resolving the matter calls for a special skill. Only you can break through this impasse and find a solution, bringing joy and happiness to the bride, the groom, and their families. Of course, Satan has been fanning the flames, and his hidden and open hand in this matter is plain to see. With trust in God and your help, I hope this difficulty will be resolved, God willing, and these two young people will be able to begin their life together in their own home. َّهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحيمِ

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To resolve difficulties with a temporary marriage and gain the bride’s brother’s consent, it is recommended to recite Prayers 1, 2, 3, 8 and 17 of al-Sahifa al-Sajjadiyya with sincere devotion. It is also recommended to recite the seventy-part prayer of repentance attributed to Imam Ali (AS), and to recite Surat al-Fil and Surat al-Kawthar one hundred times, dedicating the reward to Lady Fatima al-Zahra (SA).

Answer by Master Ali Saei (Abdullah Meshkat)

Teacher and researcher in the intellectual tradition of wisdom and the Ahl al-Bayt | Soroush Bamdadān Cultural Center

Recite the first, second, third, eighth and seventeenth supplications of al-Sahifa al-Sajjadiyya with full presence of heart and attentiveness to their meanings.

Recite Imam Ali’s seventy-part prayer of seeking forgiveness in a spirit of repentance and humble supplication, reflecting on its meanings.

Recite Sūrat al-Īlāf and Sūrat al-Kawthar one hundred times, and offer the reward to Lady Fatima al-Zahra (peace be upon her).

Believers, please pray for them.
اللَّهُمَّ يَا مُؤَلِّفاً بَيْنَ الثَّلْجِ وَ النَّارِ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِ عِبَادِكَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَلَى طَاعَتِكَ.
َ اللَّهُمَّ اجْمَعْ شَمْلَهُمَا وَ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمَا
ِ اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ اللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ وَ تَوَفَّنِي عَلَى مِلَّةِ رَسُولِك‏

I am grateful to you, faithful friends. I ask you to pray for this couple. May God reward you.

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